We address the physics of equilibration in ultracold atomic gases following a quench of the interaction parameter. Our work is based on a bath model which generates damping of the bosonic excitations. We illustrate this dissipative behavior through the momentum distribution of the excitations
nk, observing that larger
k modes have shorter relaxation times $\ensuremath{\tau}(k)$; they will equilibrate faster, as has been claimed in recent experimental work. We identify three time regimes. At short times
nk exhibits oscillations; these are damped out at intermediate times where the system appears to be in a false or slowly converging equilibrium. Finally, at longer times, full equilibration occurs. This false equilibrium is, importantly, associated with the
k dependence in $\ensuremath{\tau}(k)$ and has implications for experiment.